Would you say that most of your negative attitude shows by having a critical spirit or complaining? Is she often the target
she is never the target - more of an "outlook" on life always seems like uphill battle for me every day.
Originally Posted By: soleil
What you do is tell her you want to make the M work, or willing to do any and everything to do that and if she doesnt' want to do MC, you respect that but you're going to do it on your own. Then pull back.
I would not advise you to move out, esp. if she's the one who wants the separation.
Feel free to read my sitch. My H is also very negative and kind of a "danny downer" or "negative nelly." As the other person in the M, I can tell you it is NOT attractive to us. So start finding positive things you like about yourself and stuff you like to do.
amazing how talking to people who i do not know can shed so much light on a very dark day - i am calling my bookstore to make sure they have DR in stock - istrangely i have a much more positive outlook on life - i need to change for me...and the rest of my family!
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
