What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Thanks everyone. A lot of help here and a lot to digest. Should I get a lawyer first? Do I make things worse legally by kicking her out on her a$$? I have a call into a lawyer friend about all this.

I am not opposed one bit to what RobX says. It is my first reaction.

Try your plan out here. What will you do today?
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