Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
Tridoc,

When you pursue your W while she is out with OM, I feel disappointed. I want you to be skeptical of everything she does and says. I want you to DB. I want you to do these things to save your M. Her behavior is very disrespectful to you. If you enable irresponsible behavior, it will continue.......



Doc,

You can enable irresponsible behavior, or you memorize what robx wrote and kick her out. Kicking her out is so counter-intuitive. Kick her out with style. Shock her back into reality. The fantasy ends today. You have to reject her hard. You have to reject her. Reject her and make her pursue you.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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