feel like giving up - talk to me!

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I hear you guys but please - my hurt feelings are not clouding my judgement. I'm just stating that I'm confused because of his "back and forth."

I know last night he said he wanted to work on the marriage but at the same time he was giving me signs that he is still confused - so there is my doubt.

I will take what you said into consideration and I will try and remain positive for my own good.

His work blackberry - I told him this morning I've had it with all that checking on the weekend stuff (cuz he never did it before) I said you don't take my feelings into
consideration - he said, "yes I do."

He just came into the bathroom when I was showering - hasn't done that in a while. We have glass doors so I was covering up a little - he opened the door to peek in and I said, "hey"....

Ok guys - he just came over to me right now (i'm on the couch with my laptop next to my daughter) he said, "why don't you invite your friend over?" I said, "no way..so you can bash me in front of her" - sorry I had to! He said, she thought I was rude to you? I gave him the example - remember when you said to me, "i don't care and the sooner you get that through your head the better off you'll be." I said, "she thought that was awful how you talked to me." He said, "she said that?" yeah...

He looked at me and said, "T we are on the same page you just don't know it." I said what do you mean by that? He said we just are.

He is being a little nicer today but still has some sarcasm - made a statement in the bedroom "you don't think I'm a good catch?" I said, "not anymore...you used to be." He said, "hey that's not fair I always tell people what a good mom and housewife you are."

Anyway - there it is guys - please don't think I'm not listening - I AM!!