H4L the fact that you gave him time to sort himself out he will have appreciated even though he is never going to tell you that lol! Bet because you hadnt answered he was already for another H4L bunfight and you threw him by just explaining you hadnt got it.
He does appear to want to be in control a lot and maybe thats because he feels so outta control, his feelings are raging around inside him a bit like us all as teenagers, and teenage boys struggle to get their feelings out and if they never learn too grow into men that cant vent their feelings until they just spew them out in anger!
Well done for keeping calm hun, especially if your background makes you feel uncomfortable, an old old habit of mine that a good friend pointed out to me and help me cure was the being on the "defensive" she noticed that if I felt cornered I'd come out in "attack mode" it grew out of the fact that I had and still have a scheming little sister who always lied and got me into trouble so I got used to defending myself. The other habit she nipped in the bud was me being rude about myself before someone else did, again my parents always thought they were being funny with their teasing and joking but they were being indirectly spiteful. We all have things we can change and it feels good to change things so embrass them rather than fear them!
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