What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Look at yourself Greek... did Coach let you back into the door after only a few hours of misery? NOPE.

Understood. Ours was a bit different b/c I left. However, to your point, when I inched back, he showed me a door that could be opened. And so my concern with Robx's approach is will it send the message that the door is closed and canNOT be opened.

My concern with my own advice to Doc is that if he gives her the two choices, he'll go soft on her. At least with Rob's plan, geeeez! No going soft there. And so it has merit b/c tough love is very much needed here.

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