Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

K,

Sorry about the delay in my response to your reply. I actually had nice response teed up on Sat. night through my Bberry but when I tried to send it I got some error message. I don't have access to the family computer as it is in my W possession and I refused to pay for the internet service.

Unfortunately I can only respond via the work computer, which is not the best option.

Anyway, you were dead on with the multiple OM thought process. And I agree the snooping thing isn't a good idea but it has yielded some very interesting and useful information. One being the OM action. Which is heating up. She isn't fishing with hook and line but with a net from what I have discovered. No end in sight with the her manhunt. Oh well I guess I should no longer be surprised.

You absolutely has had it easy over the 4.5 months of unemployment. I told her I thought it was ridiculous that we are paying 3k/month ($1,500.00 of which is my expense) for nanny coverage while she has been unemployed and really didn't make any effort to look for a new job until January. Just hiking and burning through her cashed out 401k like drunken sailor.

You are right about not getting my hopes up based on some information gathered via snooping about her R with OM1. The bottom line is she hasn't shown any sign of wavering on her decision to D regardless of what is happening with her new life.

I'm going to catch up further on your sitch and the advice you received. Thanks for your reply and look forward to further discussions.