I do have another question as well...While I am giving her space and doing me she has expressed to me some things that make her feel loved and that she needs...Just little things like acts of service such as making the bed or cooking dinner when she is tied up or frustrated. Is it possible to do these things if done nonchalantly( I am really done with begging and will not ask for temp checks or affirmation) and still be able to remain cool and about me? I know she is watching my every move. She told me the other night she really wants to see consistency out of me. Would doing these little things slowly but surely hinder or help progress since she expressed these things?