...If she admits it but falls apart and begs you to forgive her, stand your ground about what it will take for YOU TO WORK ON THE M! Tranparency. She has to cough up the go-phone. Remember how she was leaving her legit phone out to APPEAR open. You've learned something about her, right????? Make her own this and earn you!
Doc ~ it's either one or the other. She is a very manipulative girl and my bet is she will try to twist this into a soft landing for herself. Do not allow this. If you want to recover your M, you have to be tough with her HERE.
Oh and once she finds out OM is kicked out - that's going to be a big blow up and she may blame you. You know not to take that bait. Don't debate it with her. You know and she knows what's what. And another thing - that OM is probably on his knees right now begging W to take him back. From what I've read here, OM tend not to want the reality either. His fantasy is coming to a screeching halt, too.
Keep us posted! Be smart. Be strong. Greek
instead of re-writing all of what greek said, i just emphasized it, now you have a few people giving a nod in the direction you should be going in, are you going to veer off track again and go the safe route or are you going to do the right thing?
