No time line. Hit her hard ( in speach only ) and make sure you kick her out as well.

This will make the two of them come together and they can have a nice conversation about how they have nothing. Spouses are horrible. Kicking them out. Let them decide how 'soul mates' can over come this and all others.

Then when she is gone. Let it all out.

Then you need to decide about exposure.

Thats your choice.

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