Should I ask her " Do you want to tell me really what you did this weekend?" Should I just stay dark get my lawyer all lined up and get all my ducks in a row. Should I continue acting like nothing happened?...... Until I throw the bomb right back at her.
The OM wife says it would be playing right into her plans if I kicked her out. Because he is out now too. They would be getting what they want!
Doc ~ don't ask her about the weekend. You know about the weekend and dude, she is JUST GOING TO LIE! She gets NO INPUT NOW except making the choices you lay out before her. PERIOD!
They will not get what they want being together. Here is what they'll have - no sneaking. No fantasy. He'll be broke b/c there are three children and a W that the law won't let him walk away from. Your W is going to be broke b/c you are the bread winner. And these two entitled brats will only enjoy their salad days until the first argument comes along. Then they'll look at what they left and ... yeah...first love or not, it's not built on anything either one of them can rely upon.
Help OM's W buck up and play the tough love card, too. But I predict she'll have an easier time b/c he's going to be begging to come back. He can't afford what he's done.
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