The OM wife says it would be playing right into her plans if I kicked her out. Because he is out now too. They would be getting what they want!
No, that's what they think they want.
Part of the thrill of the affair is being able to sneak around behind their spouses' backs. They get to have the romantic getaway weekend and come back to you and OM's W.
But if they get forced to live together, out in the open, then that thrill is gone. Now they get to argue over who does the laundry, or she finds out that he's really a slob. She's not going to wear the sexy underwear for him all day every day.
My father left my mother for another woman -- an ex-wife, actually. Within two months, they had split up because the reality couldn't live up to the fantasy.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
