Do not pursue! You need to give him the space to consider/acknowledge that he needs to support you when you're triggered. (Though, in my H's case, it took many months before he was able to stop getting all defensive and "me, me, me" during such episodes.)
Since Piecing is all about reestablishing communication, I'd lightly say to him tonight that it was a shame you felt so highly triggered last night, and you can't wait for these triggers to diminish, but you really appreciate the way that he (insert any honest compliments for the way he reacted). If he wants to add more to that, great, otherwise, consider the conversation ended and move on to other matters.
