What has your W complained about in your M? How can you start looking to take care of those traits that she's complained about? What do YOU want to work on FOR YOURSELF?
mostly my neagtivity and how i can "pout" if you will, but mostly the negativity - these are traits i have even told my own children that i HATE about myself
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
One more question: Have you rolled over and given in to your wife throughout your M just to keep the peace? In effect, have you been neutered? It's actually a pretty common thing to happen...but based on your wife stating low desire, not being attracted, etc., I'd say she's lost respect for you.
I would say - yes , but more of me ignoring problems as if they didn't exist so i could keep the peace.
I am going book hunting tonight - this will be my place to help re-define who i am and hopefully keep my family in tact.
I do need advise on how to "give her space" that she requests - any thoughts because at lunch today it just seemed if i said anything she gotr pissed and if i did nothing i was accused of pouting and she got pissed....a real win-win situation for me
oh BTW i am 37 and feeling less alone thanks to this place
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
