I feel fantastic right now!!!! A huge weight has been lifted off me. It wasn't me! It was her. She was so cold....I am reading all these books on how to help myself and I did, and it's her all along.
I hate to break it to you, but it's never just one person in the relationship.
It's good that you have been working on yourself and your R. But resist the temptation to demonize your wife.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
