Hi Bill, Sorry to see you back but it looks like you're getting some good guidance here. You sound so much stronger and wiser, but please be careful. IMHO, it sounds like your W keeps pushing the focus back onto what YOU have done to her! Ironically. She doesn't ever reference how devastating all this has been for you. Just my 2 cents. However, your sitch sounds hopeful and I wish you the best possible outcome for you. I think the personal growth you've done while terribly painful over the last yr. is going to put you in good place no matter what the outcome for your M. Wihsing good things for you in this new year! LFA
