Gardner you said you saw some real, small positives. Could you please be specific so I know what I am doing right.
imo:
Originally Posted By: hopingforhope32
After only a few days she told me the more she sees the man in me come out she knows is there the more she misses me She calls. she begins to open up little by little.
Things like this plus everything you're doing.
Originally Posted By: hopingforhope32
She also said on her own she has noticed some big changes in me and that it shocks her and she is a little angry( do not know what to do with this).
This is the very real (to her), "too little too late" mantra.
Originally Posted By: hopingforhope32
SOme of this is unnatural
The right thing to do, DB-wise, is always counterintuitive.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac