Sandi,

Had a great weekend. Will post more of an update later today when I have more time.

In the meantime my W emailed today and started off with hoping I had a nice weekend and then talked about football games from the weekend. Then tells me she agrees we shouldn't meet together with C this week. After our argument last week and how she acted I had suggested we not meet since we couldn't even be in the same room together yet and be comfortable. She then says we should go to C soon. Didn't mention for closure but of course this is still her reason. She also said again about getting together to discuss selling house, etc. Also tells me how she is having problems taking my name off one of our joint bills. Said she needs copy of my license to do this. Ends email with, Thanks W.

While it was good that she was nice in her email after our argument last week (I was concerned the confrontation last week would have kept her upset with me), I know she is being nice to get what she wants. Metting, copy of license, future C session for her closure.

Sandi, as I promised you in my last post I will run by you what my next actions should be. So, how would you suggest I handle her email today? Should I be nice back? Do I email her back today or wait a day? Give he copy of my license to make it easier for her for bill? I think I already know your answer to that one. smile Do small talk about football games?

My computer broke over the weekend and she also cancelled our home phone number. So I can't fax her a copy of license and can't scan and email her a copy. Since she took most of the money in joint account I don't have the money right now to fix computer or buy a new one yet. Should I tell her this and ask her to put some money back into joint account to fix computer? It upsets me that I should have to even ask her for the money as it's just as much mine but I'll save that conversation for another time.

Please let me know what you think Sandi. If you need more info let me know.

Thank you,
mza8


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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