What do I need to do now and how do I confront her with this? I don’t want to kick her out. I might just pretend that I don’t know.
You don't have to kick her out. But you probably should set a boundary here.
Tell her that her behavior is disrespectful to you and to the marriage. If she wants to sleep with other men, she needs to find someplace else to live and you will consider your options. If she wants to stay and work things out, she must give up contact with the OM.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
