What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

I feel fantastic right now!!!! A huge weight has been lifted off me. It wasn't me! It was her. She was so cold....I am reading all these books on how to help myself and I did, and it's her all along.

I want to handle this appropriately and not out of anger. I want to proceed the RIGHT way. This is a no fault state so it doesn't matter if she is having an affair or not. I am contacting a lawyer though. I need to get all my affairs in order. I'm not going to make this easy for her