What's funny is I could copy and paste that ENTIRE post of yours. Could not be ANYMORE dead on for me as well. Everything! Found myself shaking my head yes, yes, yes, yep, me too....etc.
I have days to were I just don't care, then I'll have an angry day, then I'll have a sad day, rollercoaster of emotions. But mostly it's to the point where I don't want to hear about it....you made this bed now lay in it.