Might I suggest in your newly created 'spare time' you go through the WAS forums and read some of the stories of WAS and why they have done what they did to give yourelf some insight on yourself and to what is going through your W's head and why she wants out.

You're right, you didn't change over night, and neither did she.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11