What is this 5 love languages book you are talking about? I havent heard of it
I'd look it up on Amazon. I'm no expert. I have the "Men's Edition" since my Borders didn't have the original (it's a bit of a franchise/series now, like the Chicken Soup for the Xxx books) and have not read it all yet.
Basically,the author's premise is that we each speak in - and respond to - one or more of five "Love Languages":
Words of Affirmation Quality Time Receiving gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch
Figure out your mates language and "speak" in it.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
