Welcome, gman
Originally Posted By: gman
i have no one i can really talk to about this.
Well, you're in the right place, then. Read. Read Divorce Remedy. Read Quotes found on Divorcebusting II at the top of the Newcomers list. Post. Tell us more about your sitch. Have you considered going to counseling yourself? Consider talking to a DB Telephone Coach, if you can afford it.
Originally Posted By: gman
i feel so alone.
Good. Means you're normal. And definitely have come to the right place
Originally Posted By: gman
my kids (11,8,4) are becoming very aware that something is not right -
They've been aware for a while. They sense it.

Hey, wait a minnit...I'm "GMan"! wink


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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac