my wife of 12 years has basically told me she "cannot" give me the love i deserve and that all the years of doing everything for everyone has left her empty inside. i read the WAS stories and i see the same things in her i read others are going through....she tells me she has no sexual desire to be with me and how can i want to be in a marriage like that....my answer "because i love her". she refuses to go to any kind of counciling either - she repeatedly tells me she is "giving up" - i know i am no saint in this all, like most men i assumed things were fine when they are not - i am trying to make myself a better person and realize now how i need to be more positive in life.

i have no one i can really talk to about this..i feel so alone.

my kids (11,8,4) are becoming very aware that something is not right -


M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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