Wow...Your mediation is f2f...When I did mine we were each in separate rooms and the mediator would go back and forth with proposals...Could you ask the mediator for separate rooms?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."