YT tip Toes into Gardners thread and inconspicuously says "Hey G-Man go read your advice to that YTJUY guy on his thread about 2 hours ago!....like you told me don't pay attention to what they do and less than 50% of what they say.
Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. Just really caught me off-guard. We don't talk anymore. I won't even go to Mediator sessions. Unlike traditional L-to-L divorces, I've discovered that mediation keeps you face-to-face and all the emotions are front and center (plus, I have this 17-year habit of not being able to say, "no" to her and was giving away the farm!). I've grown quite out of practice steeling myself for what she's going to say this time when we don't talk at all anymore.
Thanks for the 2x4. Always helpful to be reminded to stick to the basics, i.e., DBing 101.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Just really caught me off-guard. We don't talk anymore. I won't even go to Mediator sessions. Unlike traditional L-to-L divorces, I've discovered that mediation keeps you face-to-face and all the emotions are front and center (plus, I have this 17-year habit of not being able to say, "no" to her and was giving away the farm!). I've grown quite out of practice steeling myself for what she's going to say 
