Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

I had an interesting weekend. I worked all weekend so
he spent time with the kids. He went out on Sunday and
looked at an apartment after he and I discussed it. (He
left the kids with a friend of ours for about an hour.)
I'm ready for him to move out. REALLY REALLY ready. I
went out on Sunday night and bought some stuff that I
have wanted for a long time for (soon to be) MY house.
It felt strange not discussing it with him.

I saw a bunch of friends this weekend who told me how
great I look-I've lost almost 45 pounds. THAT made me feel
great...it made me feel noticed if that makes sense.

I feel stronger today. We are going to MC tonight so
we can talk about "the talk." I'm ready to do it...
I'm ready to get it over with...I'm tired of dreading
it!! My daughter is one tough cookie. She will survive
this. I will be standing by her side every day. We CAN
do this.

We are also going to have "the talk" with my mom. She
adores my H and I KNOW she will be very shocked/sad/mad.
She is also strong so she will be ok too. I have decided.
This will be a tough talk because we all share a family
business. I think if my family sees that this is what
I want that they will be able to work thru it.

I believe this is the only right thing for me now.