Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

Um... tell me again...

WHY are you discussing things like that with her friends?

I see no harm in the conversation? It was a joking, yet true matter?

Anywho.....

What a topsey turvey weekend. Friday was ok, S11 had a function at school, so I hung out with W and S12 until then, then took the boys back by my place for the night.

Saturday morning I got a head start on cleaning up the kitchen and stuff from cousin's son moving in and all. I took note of the lack of storage now for 2 active cooks in the house and all the items therein related. So when my cousin got home I addressed the idea of picking up some pantry cabinets and cousin agreed. Turned into a bit of a project, but much needed. S11 helped out my cousins son put one cabinet together while I did the other and S12 was helping cousin and her friends get stuff re-orginized upstairs. Out of nowhere, S11's attitude went south and he becaome very disrespectful to me. No sooner, S12's attitude shifted and all hell broke lose.

My cousin's and their friends all abruptly left. At the time I assumed it was because of the way the kids were acting. I couldn't take anymore and the house was in complete dissaray, so I opted to take the kids back by W's house. I've been threatening to do so each and every time they get unruly, this time it was time to inact upon it.

None the less, W was not very happy with me at all initially and it turned into a huge all out war of words, still respectful, but W and I had to itron the kids out and get to the brass root of everything. We did, and all ended well and we all jsut stayed at W's house.

Returned to cousin's house sunday as promissed to finish up the cabinet work with S11 and got into ith with her, yet another misunderstanding, but sorted out nothing to worry about or get into here.

So in the evening S11 and I went back to W's house and we made a kick butt dinner. s12 had done as I asked and helped W get the house straightened up and all, that was nice of him.

Then enter the oddities and problems that are associated in piecing and the whole trust biz.

Both Saturday and Sunday nights, I awoke in the middle of the night to a virtually completely naked W. Claims it was the heat. I have no problem with that, but.... She had said when I mentioned a while back that I was uncomfortable being there because of her and OM being intimate, she had said, "no-way, not in my father's house, that is so disrespectful". So yet, I made the comment on both occasions that she was 'torturing me' by me waking up in the middle of the night to the way she was.

And, on both occasions as she suggested and I thought to myself as love being snuggled up to the woman, I ended up down to my bottoms and that was all. We did some 'fooling around and what not, but not the main attraction. Hoowever, last night, she down to her bottoms. I got her a glass of water as requested. When I got back and got stteled in, I rolled over on top of her to give her a 'good night kiss' and mainly because the feel of her inner thighs, is well, you know. Of course, mission accomplished and I was well, 'happy', and then realized that she had now gone bottomless and I dang near got her.

I don't understand that. I have been completely respectful of what she says about being in her father's house, but I get this? I did bring protection, just in case as she seems to differ from that statment now. But still, no main attraction. I (jokingly) commented in the morning again that she was torturing aespeciall at that exact moment that she could of been 'inadvertantly poked' and she said, "well, why didn't you?".

Ok, hold the phone, first the statement of her dads house. Then her being so hap-hazzrd to not even want to use anything? I could see if she was still on the shot, but she's not. And then... there's the issue where the weekend started: OM. (oh puppy, here's where you're expertiese is needed)

I cleaned off the dinning room table this morning while W was still sleeping and her phone was finally left sitting there unguarded. Having my coffee, curiosity got the better of me. Wouldn't you know, on Satruday afternoon there were 2 messages from OM in a row.

1-"How about instead of you coming over by me, I Come over by your dad's house?"

2-"What's the plan?"

Now, here's the thing. Just before that, W had a call from her BIL down state that makes the payemnt on the house her and OM 'bought'. W did say on Saturday night that she had just given money to him that afternoon. So my ass-umption is that they were meeting to ahndle the payment. There were no replies in her sent messages, and no outbound calls to him, except for yesterday at 2 in the afternoon but the call had no duration time to it?

I'm not sure what to do with this. I really couldn't see her doing anything malicious with him after the great time we are having together all things concidered. And as I've said, she does have to ahve contact for now, but she normally says something. I don't know if this time she didn't because my feeling were already in a tizz on the issue? But especially if it involves her being at his place, oh hell no, something's got to give.

How to address?