What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Wonderful,

Where have you been? You just dropped off for a while. Thanks for checking on me.

I just have to know for sure. I have ordered a chemical detection system to do it correctly..PSA and all that. I should know tomorrow.

If she is having an affair and the marriage is going to work out, she has to stop it, and that will require tough love on my part.

I'm not afraid of divorce. Honestly, I probably will do better with it then she will. I just won't tolerate her manipulating me and blaming me for this. I want to end it on my terms and make her feel guilty for what has happened. I suppose that is a start. I can't continue to have her take advantage of me.

I suppose once I do find out, I will need a consensus from the board on how to handle it without cutting my own throat.