Well my last thread was locked and I just wanted to update it a little.
Just read a thread over in Newcomers which sounded just like me when I came over here.
For all my emotional gripes, moans and rollercoaster rides I only talk about it in here. To everybody else, other than the odd 'not being in a great mood', which we all do, I appear to be upbeat and happy.
So while you all may think I'm an emotional wreck ... that's only in here
Anyway, eventually got a hold of solicitor. He spoke to W's solicitor on Friday and they will chase up with W about separation agreement. Started looking at renting property in the nearest big city which is 100 miles from here. That get's me out of here. Out of W's way and let her continue her A without interference from me. It also let's me get on with my life without having it constantly hanging over my head.
However, I have until Feb 2nd to decide what I'm doing. I was all set for selling this place but I've got a bit of nostalgia for it now too Solicitor said that if W doesn't sign separation agreement then the only way to force the issue of her being entitled to half the house is to force a D and take it to court ... decisions, decisions, decisions ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
