Heck yeah! Screw it, I have had enough. I am damned tired of working around what he wants.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Immediately I thought BS upon reading that. I would agree that something seems suspicious about that. Never heard of that unless it's the immigration thing but even so.......
Congrats on the new position! I sent my resume....awww scary!
I too, think my H will not get go forward with anything. He will wait for me to do it as well. I've been telling him for over two years....if this is what you want, you're so sure, then go get the papers.........here I am still no paperwork.
SG has crawled back into his cave again, not responding to me. Not that I am hounding him or anything,but I sent him a text to let him know that our 60 day waiting period is up and the D can be final. No response. Typical...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I'm the same boat. We've become pen pals, me and my STBX. From here on, I'll be sending him e-mails, unless there is an emergency. Mondays are not usually great, but I'm grateful to have a job, and for this fabulous hotel. They love me here.
This happens frequently too with my H. When he is really needy or depressed though...it is not the case. He is sure to let me know how bad things suck for him. Which ......troubles me. You're the one that wanted out.
I did file. After months and months of waiting for him to do it, I got really pi$$ed off and did it myself. The only problem is that if I were to file here in NY I would have to wait two years before I could because SG lives in TX. Had we been married in NY it would be a different story, but we were married in TX. So therefore, I filed in TX. The short of it is that in order to finalize I have to fly back to TX. And because I will be starting a new job, I can't right now.
SG is the same way. He will bitch, moan and complain when things aren't going well for him, but when things are going great for me he is quick to shut up. That ticks me off because I feel the same way. I didn't want this, he did. I still really don't want it, but I also figure that after two and a half years with nothing changing WTF is the point? I paid my dues, worked my a$$ off and made the changes. He has not duck a kufcing thing but complain how back his life sucks and how much he has lost.
Well, gee, maybe if you kept your schlong in your pants, and talked to me instead of some bimbo, you wouldn't be in this situation!
Yeah, Lola is a little pi$$ed off today. But that is okay, I embrace my anger.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Lola, I've been working on healthy expression of anger myself. The old Goldey would stuff it, stuff it, stuff it, and ended up with migraines, health issues. The new and improved Goldey isn't afraid of anger anymore. When expressed in a healthy (non-toxic) way, it actually feels good (moderation is the key). Gypsy's been a real good listener for me. Any movement on the job sitch?
I need to be angry. It really ticks me off that he thinks he can just talk to me when its convenient for him. I mean, I don't think I am being demanding.
So I sent him a text that said (setting boundary...AGAIN) Really? Are we back to ignoring again? Seriously, just trying to make conversation.
Of course, he comes up w/ lame excuse 2467 which is that he is trying to catch up w/ work. I said "its all good. just thought we got past the stage where we treated each other like shiznit."
Jackass.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
