Your h is actually focusing on himself a bit and has had some moments of clarity. Your move may have given him enough space to actually work on himself and not focus on you. You handled the conversation well. Keep your expectations at zero. Continue doing what you are doing as he feels comfortable in talking to you about his feelings.
Great job!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
