#68 Santa baby...been an awful good girl!!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey M..
I’m glad you got an appointment and I am glad I got to talk to you.. you are tormented by how you IMAGINE their R.. and of course you are.

But, some of what you imagine is perhaps true, or some truth in it from what you read/saw…BUT, as I said, you may be embellishing what you read with the only frame of reference you have for your H.. your own experience of being in an R with him and how he is with you, or how he was in the past. Like how tender he was when your kids were born. But you have no way of really knowing how he was with her in any given situation so your active piscean imagination is filling in the blanks, of course. He may not have been tender with her at the hospital, he may have been tense, stressed and withdrawn for example.

So, as my sister kept saying to me, you don’t know so its best to try not assume. The only person who knows is H and he now says that he can’t remember! He may be avoiding, or protecting you by saying that but it could be true..because I cant remember hardly anything about stuff me and bf did 3+ years ago and especially for things I have purposefully tried to forget about if it was something I regretted (like H’s R with her).

Hugs !
xx
PS: Did you read Priya? I thought of you when I did today...