Hi all. I know its been sometime since I have been on here..I had gotten a new job and had to move down by family members and of course with the crunch..no internet there. Alas I do go home every other weekend now....

Things have been moving along...have talked to XH in IM messages but this was back in early Dec...

XH and I where talking about our youngest D and her H...
and he said that I was the only one to really know him...well hello yeah, 17 yrs...but I was nice I just listened...
then came from him the "do you miss me"
let me tell you I sat there and was in a sweat...I did tell him I did...and then asked if he missed me....(I know I know) but I got an answer back from him....said "he thinks about me everyday and tells everyone what a great wife I was!" He then asked "if I ever thought about us going back"...I said yeah sometimes....
he said "he did too but dont really want to premote false hope no hope is better than false hope"

...talk about falling off the chair, but then turned around and said "you never know what the future holds for us..he may move down to the biggest fishing capital of the world one day."

Then asked me "if I was ever going back up north, and asked if I was bringing my friend with me (BF)" and I said I dont think so and he stated that he "wanted to spend some time together."

I have not left the state! I did not run to him...and have talked to him just once on the phone....again youngest D has a problem with her H now..UGH!

I went back to being dark and live my life...
I did call him for NY Eve but got his voice mail...which I just left a nice message and thats it...

I can not believe the turn of events that have been going on with this man...he comes out for a little bit then back in the whole.

Anyway hope all is well with all my fellow FB people!!! Keep up the DBing.... Hope everyone has a great New Year!!!

Always FBabe


Anything good in life is worth waiting for!
Take care of you!


H-43
W-52
M-6/21/90
LU-NIL-7/03
M/OUT- 7/03
Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out)
D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)