And it was kinda nice. Or nostalgic. Dammit. I mean as soon as I ended the conversation "Well, you have a good night, now," and hung up, all I wanted to do was call her back. And talk to her some more. Because it was almost her. For the first time in 8 or 9 months, she sounded like her. The One I remember. The one I've just about finished (I think) grieving. Dammit. Damn her.
YT tip Toes into Gardners thread and inconspicuously says "Hey G-Man go read your advice to that YTJUY guy on his thread about 2 hours ago!...."
YT tiptoes back out of thread and closes door behind.
I realize that I might be the last person qualified to give you any advice and you have a ton of people that are much better versed than I in here daily, however--like you told me don't pay attention to what they do and less than 50% of what they say.
I assume that means on positive (sentimental) things as well? Your ex-W is probably sad and hurt about things but not enough yet to realize that she is the one that caused it. So when you hear her talk like that next time you (like me) need to be better prepared and have your armor on and your defenses up.
Again, you are so helpful and thoughtful in my thread that I hope you are not offended to get some of your advice back. I wish I was insightful enough to have my own advice, but when yours is so dead on I do what I did in College.......Plagerize it!
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H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?