New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

It is a sign that you are at least acting as if you are detached! And that definitely takes strength.

I think the best summary of detachment is knowing you will be okay. Knowing that no matter what happens with the M, you will be just fine. When you know that in your gut, the little stuff doesn't matter anymore.

It's a great start! It sounds like you are getting a handle on things.

Keep moving forward, one day at a time.