Wow, Sounds like you did a great job and you also handled the R talk very well also. You sound so much better in your post.
Originally Posted By: mb28
The conversation did turn to R/M talk but I stayed strong and non-emotional. I told him that I cared for him, and wanted him to be happy. That I respected and trusted him to make the right decision for himself, even if that decision ends up to not stay married to me. I told him that I would like to try to make the marriage work. However, that I can’t control how he feels or what he decides. In addition, that I will be fine either way.
This is good you were able to state what you wanted and also that you are going to be fine no matter what he decides to do.
Now it is time to follow through on "I will be fine either way". I am there with you on that one, trying to do the same in my sitch.
DBing is really more about YOU than it is about your wayward spouse, at somepoint we all come to realize that. Your doing great!!!
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
