My story, what to do next.

[MarkG]

There is some truth to what you said about wanting what they can't have, but you may have gone too far if you wanted to really save the marriage. I hope it works for you. I told my WAW that I was done committing until she was ready to, that was all. I have a current OW that it's not going to last with, and WAW knows this. When she found out I had a OW she got angry even though she had OM, then said it was ok. We started talking about OW and when I said it wouldn't last and pointed out her flaws to WAW I was right back where I started. I will break it off with OW this week, and after that I do plan on having another OW and playing my cards a little closer to myself.