I have avoided commenting on any post lately because I feel I don't have anything to offer - I feel emotionally spent and I can't figure out how to get back to myself again...
That being said, you are my friend and you asked me to come here and comment -
She cries & she is sorry - Do you in your heart believe her? Is she sorry enough to actually take the time to work on the marriage? 8 or 9 months have past - Has to much time passed that you guys can't get back what you had?
Sweetie - You will never fully be finished grieving her/your marriage...There will always be a piece of you that wonders - What could have been, what went wrong, what should have been etc...
You have been at this for quite some time - Look within to see what it is you really truly want...
Last time I checked, you didn't want a divorce and maybe just maybe the door is opening a sliver within her as well.
The one thing that stands out about your whole post -
Originally Posted By: Gardener
She never wanted this
What is "this"? The divorce? The unhappiness? The changes? The anger?
If she never wanted it, why did she set out to destroy all the good you guys had built together?
If it was a mistake in her eyes, then you need to possibly re-examine what you want as well.
I of course know why you responded the way you did, but truthfully - What do you want?
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
