Moving back in

[DDogs]

This is so f'n frustrating..... tonight w is on the porch and I approach her and tell her that I'm preparing what I'm going to tell the mc in session with the kids this Tuesday. I asked her if she wanted to discuss anything before hand so that we both go in prepared.

W tells me "no, o haven't thought about it, I was just going to follow the mc lead. He's done this beforevso he'll know wahtvto say" WTF

I am so pissed right now. It says to me that she wants the mc to do all the dirty work. She asks me what I plan on saying and I tell her "after you tell the kids that you have seen a lawyer and want to and have initiated a divorce from me" I will tell the kids I don't think this the way to deal with our marriage but your mom has decided this is what she wants" " I will talk about how I love them and that I will always be their dad etc....

I ask w if she has thought about any of their questions that might come up and she says no. (questions like where will they live, changing schools, their thongs and toys.... W Says she hasn't thought about that because she don't know.

My question was well should you at least give the kids an idea? The have little info and are probably trying to fill I'm the pieces. W just says this session is just to tell the kids of the divorce. The other info we can tell them later.

I don't know folks sounds like w is just winging it relying on the mc to provide info answer questions etc..... My feeling is that the w Is relyingvon the mc and L to drive this train and tell her what she should do/say. Like I said in an earlier post, she takes the easy way out of things. Like today finally bought chantrix to help her stop smoking cause it's too hard going by other methods. Ugh. Somebody 2*4 me please......