Ugh. First possible indication of OW. H took our children to go to his martial art class (martial arts is a major major obsession of H's). D comes back talking about "a girl in a pink suit" who is pretty and who is a friend of H's. I asked D how she knew that they are friends and she said "they were talking a lot". Unfortunately I have no clue about who this would be and no easy way of finding out.
What do I do? Should I ask him about this?
A week ago I had asked that my children have no contact with any person that he dates without discussing it with me first. He looked shocked when I said that and asked to think about it for a few days, but he never followed up on it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
