If I did ask W, it would be something like:

"Our next scheduled MC appointment is xx.xx Thursday.

I still choose this Marriage and our Family and I invite you to join me there."

Comments

H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010