Trying to move on

[C-Bart]

Good job working through this with your W. Sounds like you got some of what you wanted.

If your anything like me the hardest part was probably when she was complaining about not seeing the kids. This just kills me. When my W starts this its a combination of sympathy and frustration. You just want to shake her and say "this is the situation you created you big dummy."

I'm not sure that a WAS ever does a 180 like we hope. Its more of a phased approach. The longer you can hold off the D the longer they have to realize they have made a mistake. Also the longer we have to improve ourselves for ourselves.

You did good!