Thanks, guys. I really don't think she said that, she def. never said that to me in a year or so of therapy so seems unlikely. NC, she was my therapist, and then saw the kids too for almost a year of therapy for them. So he was supposedly meeting with her the one time to discuss the kids, why they would discuss me I don't know. And as a matter of fact, I think I recall she told me they just discussed the kids at the time which makes sense. I don't understand why he would want to be so hurtful most of the time to me. Projection, I guess.
I dropped the kids off Saturday and X had come with ow in her suv to pick them up. I didn't see OW, and X came out of the suv to help the kids. I just drove out of there asap, and ignored the whole deal. Felt about 30 seconds of anger or something, but then more just sadness for the kids of the stuff he does like that. I went to the mall and grocery store and did some shopping. Went to church and the gym today. So keeping busy. I have to do homework for my job this weekend too!
wdid, so good to see you as always!!!! My only question about that is with texting or calling me on my cell wouldn't that be maybe more disruptive? The one thing I like about limiting him to emails mostly is that I can deal with them on my time, I don't check email before bed or before work or anytime I don't want extra stress. Makes me feel like I have some bit of control over a basically out-of-control person.