me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Went to go see AVATAR with that nice guy that I connected with through Match.com. You know, the one I was all stressed about "dating."
I have been honest with him about my emotional state, and he seems cool just having company.
Anyhow, AVATAR was sold out, so we BADLY chose UP IN THE AIR, which is about love, and affairs, and making connections, and breaking up and everything! It was horrible! And he felt horrible, too, for me suffering through this.
Next time I will realize--duh--we could have walked out.
Anyhow, when it was over I marched us straight to the bar. With two margaritas in me, we were able to laugh about it, chat in general, and in general have a good time.
I gave him a hug and a thank you when we left.
Driving home I just felt sort of numb. Didn't cry. Didn't really want to cry.
But not the fun night I had expected!
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
It's great you can go to "the usual gang!" I have one too! But bad service is painful...at least the food was good! Does the gang know about your plans with your lady friends on Wednesday?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Hi newmama. Of course they did. They are my friends. I told them about the cancel and the reschedule.
How the whole evening went was like this.
Cutter calls one friend and says. Lookit dinner and movie night got cancelled. So I am not making dinner for myself. Wanna go grab a pint and a bite to eat. Friend ok. Lets see who else wants to join in. And afterwards wanna come back to my house watch a war movie and some hockey. Me. sounds good what time you swinging by to pick me up...
And away we go...
That night I even crossed some of my goals into their lives. I now have 3 running friends for a race in March It will be their first and my second. We went on line and signed them up that night as well.
New stronger and confident Cutter at work here. And I am pushing this positivness on my friends.
Heard a funny quote from a couple.
"Cutter sorry about your wife's actions. But a good thing that came out of it is that your out more now. And we like hanging out with ya. You're very upbeat."
I felt very humbled by that.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
New stronger and confident Cutter at work here. And I am pushing this positivness on my friends.
Heard a funny quote from a couple.
"Cutter sorry about your wife's actions. But a good thing that came out of it is that your out more now. And we like hanging out with ya. You're very upbeat."
