I felt that she seemed happy that I felt like working on the unconditional love and her attitude seemed to change for the better after I expressed my feelings.
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She has really gone out of her way to show me that she is not having an affair. Phone records are blank and she lays her phone out for me to see all the time. She doesn't go out at night and works 3 days a week. The rest of the time she says she either works out, goes to the store, or is with the kids.
Doc,
We base our responses on your descriptions. The things I quoted above were not in the earlier post about things she is doing that you find troubling. The earlier post talked about negative things. Here you bring up some positives. Only you know all the details of your personal situation. We get bits and pieces and form opinions based on those pieces. Keep your eye on the total picture. Work from that, try not to see only the negatives. She will react based on the way you act, and vice versa.
Marriage is a longterm relationship based on your history together. The actions of the past weekend are not the sum total of what you should consider.
