Just another thought, if she was still is the same house, like in Kempers sitch, I would do the tough love thing but also really focus on finding out what need(s) are not being satisified. Then maybe pick one, like conversation or something, and see where that leads. (You still need to keep your distance and not pursue...talk about a fine line) In our case, I think we are past that point until they figure things out, one way or the other. Kemp..hint...hint!
