Hey LFA-

checking in on you. As our sitches are so similar--I only have contact around house stuff, too.

I wanted your input on how much to initiate contact around house stuff. At this point I would rather not see him at all, but then there is the frustration of wanting to do DB stuff and have him see how fab, etc., I look and am.

Is your H still pressuring you on D?

How are you handling it?

I hope you are well--


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process