I presented W with a handwritten note for both our signatures stating that we both agreed this was the final division of 'Goods & Chattels' and told her this was her one chance to get what she wanted, I would be giving rest to charity (I'm pretty sure that it is in no way legally binding though).

She had taken about 1/3 what I thought she would take.

She wouldn't sign anything so I told her nothing more was to leave the house and that it wasn't on that she keep coming back for more and more. She left saying she would be back once they had sorted first lot out, but they didn't come back.

Interestingly her car stayed at BIL's house, so she didn't go running off to OM for comfort.

Have instructed the kids that BIL is not allowed into the house by himself (W & I both working all week I think) and that if W & BIL turn up again while I am at work they are to ring me before anything else is taken.

Original instructions still stand, whatever is still hers and here Tuesday night is going to charity.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010